I left for Helsinki with a hazy head and a high gag reflex, and sat on a ferry soothing myself with encouraging words to stop from vomiting into a little plastic bag. I managed to save face and stepped off the boat back on Scandinavian ground without having to carry the night before’s hot dog in a squidgy plastic bag to find a bin. Winner. I decided that a walk with my double turtle backpack would do me well. 45 minutes later I am congratulating self on a good navigation, only to find no hostel and be pointed to a road with two different letters in it. Well fuck you google maps “did you mean Diddlysquat, or Diddlaysquot. I meant what I meant, the one that led me to the room with shower and bed. Alas, I did not lose hope, and with some more encouraging self soothing words and a “now just force yourself to laugh, hardy ha” I arrived at my hostel, ran across the road for a pack of ham, a tube of chocolate digestives and a fanta.
I woke a few hours later feeling a little a little disappointed with self for the amount of crumbs, and the lack of surviving biscuits, but generally happy with life. I wandered the market in Kaampi square, nibbled on cheese, wandered some more and turned in for a good night’s sleep. On a Friday. Prime of my life.
I had one day in Helsinki, with a good night’s sleep in a comfy bed. I devoured the pack of chocolate digestives like I belong in Texas. I walked around the grid of the city getting myself happily lost in the pursuit of quiche. Its intermittently pissed with rain, weakly, the limp handshake of rain, not like the tropical torrent of Tallinn. I have climbed all over the Rock Church (quizzically enough a church constructed out of a big rock) amongst some fellow tourists of the Asian persuasion.
I went charity shop shopping. I hunted down coffee shops and marvelled at the architecture of the Museum of Modern Art. I ate Asian food in a crowded restaurant with the waitress screaming across the small restaurant floor at different tables. It seemed to be part of the charm of going as I saw shoulders shaking around me. On the advice of someone I met, I watched a 5 minute YouTube clip of Russian Alphabet Introduction. I finished my Theroux book and am looking forward, with some wide eyed naivety, to the chaos of China.
Theroux wrote “…any travel book revealed more about the traveller than it did about the country”. I think we can all gather by now that I am in the most incompetent of guides to any particular place… I can only wander, notice stupid things, overlook other things, eat to my budget, visit things to my budget. Sometimes I am so introverted that I cannot muster the smile to talk to anyone. I feel rude asking questions, I do not seek out the local to get the inside track. I hate imposing, I prefer to float as an observer. I would be the most rubbish of journalists. My understanding of a city or country is through the keyhole of my eyes in my particular mood. I would be ignorant to state how a place functions in any one way. You’d hope for the diversity that makes a city interesting, even if you were not there for enough time to see it, and so for me to attempt to explain wholes would be ridiculous, arrogant and futile. So I hope you don’t mind this blog will never be information.
I am beginning to feel consistently content. If my head is in a book, or I cannot muster to chat to anyone, I know that it really doesn’t matter. It might have taken me a while to feel like this is a positive thing I am doing and not a hedonistic escape from a fear of establishing myself somewhere. I think my peace of mind has to do with a variety of things. The people I have recently met, with stories and adventures and positivity, wise heads on their shoulders and years of living life well to their name. Perhaps it has been Scandinavia, the Baltics and the way people live life there and the type of tourist that they attract. It is excitement for Russia and beyond, and the part of the journey that flings me far away. Perhaps also it is the excitement and fear of the alien; the discomfort of being the alien, and having to get by that makes me feel alive. The curiosity for the weeks and months to come.
I could not find a bed under 60 euros in Helsinki on Saturday night so I cancelled my 6am train and got on a night bus to St Petersburg. I have been so giddy to get to Russia, to get on the big train, that I couldn’t wait longer. I got pushed off said bus at 6am in a place in St Petersburg that was definitely not a bus stop and, with a vivid 6am memory that H is N – found my way to Nevsky Prospect and through ploopy rain in wet shoes navigated my way to my hostel here. I have really taken to talking to myself and I almost sang my way down the streets, from excitement, from finally feeling in the swing of this trip, having grasped a bit of control and knowing that the most of it is uncontrollable. I spent much of 2 months around Europe split between an uneasy feeling that I had made a bad choice to travel, and trying to convince myself that it was ok to do it. Perhaps I was zig-zagging around so close to home that it felt like a limbo with the goal of the trip.
I cannot put my finger on it, but something settled me in the Baltic states; as above, the people, the hostel buddies, my short fuse for negativity, and I finally grasped that this was only positive, and completely what I want to be doing right now. I am caring less about “how it should be done” and just doing it my way. Tis the only way. Sporadically reading a friends blog on Indonesia which is another exciting future. Have a look at it!
Everything is unknown and unplanned, and I am so utterly content with this that I actually feel a bit proud. Not something I feel too often so am writing it down…
Off to make borsch… And it will be awesome.